Unexpected Love

November 10, 2011, 2:20 PM, I just got off the phone with my girlfriend and we fought about the stupidest thing. Although it was the stupidest thing, for some reason I couldn’t suppress my anger. I just couldn’t let go of the feeling of being upset and angry. This was so ironic because in the beginning I told her that I would never upset her and I would never make her cry because of me. Well, it has been happening often lately. All these arguments and fights make me think about a time not too long ago when we never fought and everything was amazing.

Well where do I start? It was the Summer of 2011 and I met her at a friend’s house party that I wasn’t planning to go to. My friends forced me to go because they told me I’ll have an amazing time. I got there early and saw the people pour in and then I saw this girl that caught my attention. WOW, she was probably the most beautiful est girl I have ever seen in my life. But being that I had no intention of finding myself a new girl I just decided to do my own thing that night. As the night progressed I found myself drinking a lot and later ended up in my bed thinking what happened? I woke up the next morning and my friends told me things that I didn’t remember. They told me that I literally stuck with one girl, “the girl”, the whole night and then I realized that I unconsciously stuck with her, haha. To my surprise I didn’t end up with her number which was a bummer cause an interest of her grew on me, but since I didn’t have her number I decided to let it go. 

Later that day I found out that she added me to Facebook. I thought to myself, YES, but I decided not to throw myself at her so I responded nonchalantly and took my time. We had a simple conversation? But it died out, bummer. Afterwards my friend asked me to go visit her at her work and I thought to myself, should I go, will it be worth it? I came to the conclusion that there was nothing to lose so I went along. When we met up we all went to play pool, I hate pool, anyways haha we all went and I didn’t make any moves or signals cause I didn’t know how she would react. So I ended up not making any moves and she ended up making any moves as well haha, sucks. After that hangout I thought to myself haha I tried, barely, but still, no use putting any more effort. Just as I decided to let it go again, she texted me. Haha, I didn’t know at first how she got my number but she had it and she texted me. I didn’t know how to react to it cause I was excited but at the same time I was unsure how to handle the situation, so I just responded normally, then our long text conversations started and my interest for her grew even more. The more we talked the more I fell. I found out that not only was she beautiful but she had an amazing personality that I really liked haha. But although I progressed with my interest for her I was unsure if she had an interest for me because she was always texting my friend as well. All this changed on the night we all decided to go clubbing.

The night of clubbing, all I wanted to do was hang out with her but I didn’t want to look too over eager. When I arrived, the first thing I did was find her and when I did I talked with her and we danced for a bit but I couldn’t sense any vibes of interest from her so I decided there was nothing after all haha. So I just went on to dance with other people and did my on thing. After clubbing was over, we all came home together on the train. As we were coming back, she told me that she had an interest in me. I don’t know if I was more happy or more excited but it was a great feeling. From then on I had one goal and that was to make her mine.

I began to visit her at work often. Right after work I rushed to her work place to bring her dinner or to watch her work, haha sounds creepy but it was interesting to see that sometimes she didn’t notice. I was there but just being around her, it felt amazing, her presence. But being that we had a different work schedule we never had time to hangout so I decided to throw a house party of my own so that I could hang out with her again.

The house party began as a bust cause nobody was coming and it was slowly getting late but it kind of didn’t matter to me cause she was already at my party haha. But slowly people started to come and everyone began to socialize and have a good time. As the party progressed, I began to hangout with her again and we decided to go to my backyard on the swing and just talk. As we talked we learned more about each other and I kept falling for her. She kept proving to me that this girl was something special, someone that was a keeper. And before I knew it I gave her her first kiss. She told me she never kissed anyone and I saw that this could be an opportunity to make an impression on her and I did by kissing her.

Time progressed and Summer was coming to an end and school was about to beginning and I knew if I didn’t make my move soon I would lose my opportunity. So I decided I will take her on our first date together and ask her out by the end.

The day began with me picking her up from her house. I first handed her a box that had a box that had a box that had a note that asked her out. I told her she can’t open it until I told her she can. So first we went to the Cheesecake Factory to eat lunch. We conversed and she ordered plain spaghetti -.- . Really??? Anyways I had a good time just being with her and getting to eat with her. After lunch in the car I told her to open the box, she opened the box and saw that there was another box and she gave me a, ._. face, haha, I told her there was a method to my madness. Next we went to the mall to kill sometime before she had to go to work. We walked around talking and then it was time for her to go to work. When we came back into the car I asked her to open the box again and she found another box and gave me the, ._. face, haha it was cute. By now I think she had an idea where I was taking this but she didn’t say. When I dropped her off at her work I asked her to open the last box but she told me she didn’t want to and that puzzled me and made me upset. She told me she will open it at work. So I let her go. Later she texted me saying she opened it and she told me that she wanted me to go back to her work place and ask her myself in person. So I went and I asked and she told me yes. Wow, she was finally mine. Haha.

Now that she was mine I couldn’t slack off because our time was limited because school was starting soon and we would be a couple of hundred miles away. So I decided to surprise her with different dates so one of the dates that sticks out in my mind was our trip to Dorney Park. We went to the amusement park went on all the rides and got bored so we went on to play some games. She told me that she thought a certain cow doll was cute so I decided to play that game and win her the doll. First off, It was an impossible game, it was to throw a softball into a milk bottle thingy. The ball was exactly the size of the hole I was suppose to throw it into. So I bought five balls and the first 4 missed but on that last ball, it was like a miracle but I made it in and I won her the doll. It felt great that something like that happened haha.

That was just the beginning of our relationship and so much time has passed already so quickly. After writing this I realized that there was a reason why I went out with this girl, a reason why she became my girlfriend, and it’s because she is my perfect girl. Even though we have been fighting a lot lately because of my mistakes, she always stuck by me. I can’t be anymore thankful for her being my girlfriend. She is amazing and I think she is perfect for me. Well, I think I said enough on this so I think it is time for me to go apologize to her, hope she accepts my apology!

(Source: bkim6)